How Colonial Programming
Impacts Your Boundaries

"You’ve been programmed to be in servitude, to be obedient, to exist without boundaries for the benefit of others."

A course to help you learn about boundaries from a decolonial healing perspective, to help you understand why you've been programmed to feel like you shouldn't have any, and why it is crucial to honor your sacred boundaries for your healing and liberation.

An hour of unlearning, healing and spiritual & decolonial guidance.



HERE'S the problem...

Living without boundaries & believing that you don’t deserve to have them will leave you feeling burnout, frustrated, full of resentment, in one-sided or exploitative relationships, & with decreased self-worth.

Beloved, learning about and honoring your boundaries is essential to your wellness and your decolonial healing journey. If you remain where you are, without sacred boundaries, you will continue to exist in colonial servitude.

You will continue to exist for everyone else but yourself. You will continue to take on everyone else's problems, leaving no room for you.

I want you to know beloved that you are not responsible for the emotions and actions of others.

This is for you if:

  • You continue to find yourself thinking that you don’t deserve to have boundaries

  • You are prepared to start the journey of unlearning harmful beliefs that dishonor your boundaries

  • You are prepared to unlearn how you’ve been programmed to be complicit in your oppression

  • You are ready to start the journey of creating more space for you
  • You sense that not honoring your boundaries is related to colonial programming and colonial intergenerational trauma

HERE'S what is possible...

You deserve to be whole,

well, and sovereign.

Beginning to end this cycle of colonial intergenerational trauma starts with increasing your awareness and shifting your mindset.

This means learning that having boundaries doesn’t make you a “mean” person.

It makes you a sovereign person.

You’ve been programmed to be a martyr, to be obedient, to exist without boundaries for the benefit of others.

No more.

Peace and wellness is your birthright.


How Colonial Programming
Impacts Your Boundaries

This foundational teaching is for Black Indigenous, Women & Femmes of Color

1 hour of unlearning, healing and spiritual & decolonial guidance.


What You Will Receive

Spiritual Rituals


You will receive pre-webinar spiritual rituals to ground before engaging in this teaching.

Guided Spiritual Meditation

To connect you to Mother Earth to ground you & prepare you to receive the medicine.

Guided Journal Workbook

A 28 page workbook with spiritual rituals, practices, and journal prompts

12 Months Access


To view the course and come back to it as many times as needed at your own pace.

HERE'S What You'll Learn...


Begin to understand how this has impacted your life as a woman of color and the lives of your family and ancestors


Learn how colonization has programmed you to feel and treat yourself as someone who is inferior.


Learn to recognize these signs so that you can restore your wellness and begin to recover your power.

Here's the details

Course Breakdown


An intentionally and lovingly created workbook to help you process the teachings along with spiritual & somatic pratices to help you navigate the unlearning.

Length: 28 Pages



Teachings that help you understand what impacts your boundaries.

Length: 27 MINUTES



Context in important. And so, here we provide a cultural and decolonial contect boundaries.

Length: 29 Minutes




Calling on your intentions for your decolonial journey.

Length: 16 Minutes




Meet your teacher and Guide

Saludos Beloved, I'm Dra. Rocío

I am a Xicana/Mexicana Seer, spiritual guide, initiated medicine woman, & Counseling Psychology Ph.D., on the Ñusta Paqo path in the Q’ero Inca lineage. I come from a matriarchal lineage and my medicine is very much rooted in the feminine, in matriarchal medicine, and in the Earth and cosmic ways.

My work is potent because of the gifts and channel the divine has given me and because of the powerful ancestors, matriarchs, & guides that show up with me.

The purpose of my work is to support you on your journey and to provide guidance that cultivates holistic wellness, connects you to a deeper sense of spirituality, and brings you back to your ancestors, guides, and your own wisdom & medicine so that together we live in harmony and balance with all of Creation.

I have more than 20 years of professional experience as a healer & teacher, and am able to hold potent healing space for others as this is a skill in my blood lineage, with my abuelita and my mama as my greatest teachers. In my training as a counseling psychologist, I provided and practiced thousands of hours of therapy. While I decided against licensure, I value the skills I acquired through my practice and the mentorship provided by BIPOC psychologists, like Dr. Jeanett Castellanos, Dr. Thomas Parham, & the Godfather of Black Psychology, Dr. Joe White amongst others. The direct practice and mentorship I was honored to receive taught me a psychology & therapy that centered the people, an Indigenous worldview, and liberation.


I am able to hold compassion for all and facilitate healing for them in decolonial work because of my medicine path in the Q'ero Inca lineage and because I am aware that there was a time I did not have this consciousness.

That first-hand experience allows me to meet you compassionately because I see how much of our collusion is unconscious and is seen as "just the way things are", often masked as "progress." I deeply understand how much of a shock and disappointment it can be to awaken to colonial collusion and how what we need is guidance, truth telling, and compassion - not shame and judgment.

My previous work was as a therapist and professor, but my path now weaves ancestral ways and new ways to meet the prophecy of these times. My work is deeply rooted in Earth and Cosmic wisdom. I walk and work in between the earthly and spiritual realms as a claircognizant, clairvoyant, clairsentient, and clairaudient. I come from a long line of healers and was born with psychic, channeling, and mediumship gifts.​

I am able to see beyond this ordinary reality to bring forth the highest timelines and visions into our earthly reality. I am grateful to my teachers, Pampamesayoq Don Alejandro Apaza, Don Justino Apaza, & Mesa Carrier and Medicine Woman Marilu Shinn for helping me remember.

The vow I’ve taken as a medicine woman and the agreement my soul has made in this lifetime is to help restore harmony and balance to the world, personally & collectively. And that’s why I offer this work to you.

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How Colonial Programming
Impacts Your Boundaries

A Foundational Teaching for Black Indigenous, Women & Femmes of Color

1 hour of unlearning, healing and spiritual & decolonial guidance.


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* 12 Months Access*